Model Fathers

In honor of our #Dadvocate Twitter Chat on June 11, we asked our Twitter followers to share stories of the ways their fathers had encouraged and supported them, often defying gender stereotypes to do so.  Here we share our favorite responses.

 

Jean MacIntyre, Alberta, Canada: My Scottish father ‘s father died young, and when he was 11 his mother denied him a merit scholarship so he could start to earn.  Although in the US he took advanced training he was sensitive about not having diplomas, so willingly paid for me to attend the best available preparatory school, the best undergraduate college (Bryn Mawr), and the recommended graduate school (Yale).  In the 1950s many men thought it a waste to educate girls because “they would just get married”; unlike them, my father took big financial chances, even losses. for the sake of filling my mind, even when we fought over ideas.  He died over 40 years ago; to this day I remain grateful.

Mark Kaigwa, Kenya: An officer and a gentleman, my father was a dad and a green thumb – constantly intrigued by botany, flaura and fauna. We camped, hiked, travelled and saw a world that was ours to explore. He stimulated our minds and taught us the value of studying and inquiring from nature. Major (Retired) Murakaru Kaigwa was always the model for me as an entrepreneur, a family man, a husband and father. Not perfect, but always loyal, honest and the best dadvocate I could have. I salute him, today and always.

Navalayo Osembo-Ombati, London, UK:

Poem to my husband 

Happy Father’s Day!

If I call you superman

You wouldn’t believe me.

But how can you not be

When the things you do –

Ordinary but mighty –

Make the impossible possible?

 

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rahul royThe work of Delhi-based director and writer Rahul Roy probes the theme of masculinity, an angle that is seldom explored in the global dialogue on gender. Roy’s most recent project, Let’s Talk Men 2.0, presents four films from four different South Asian contexts – Pakistan, India, Sri Lanka, and Nepal – that both represent and interrogate masculinity.

WGLG’s Engagement Coordinator in India, Abhishek Srivastava, recently caught up with Roy to discuss the connection between masculinities and gender-based violence, and the role that film plays in communicating these complex narratives. Continue reading

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Wonder Women! The Untold Story of American Superheroines

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